Stress and Peace...

Stress and peace seem to be counter intuitive to each other. Is it possible to have one to need the other? Every day, we experience stress. Sometimes we experience peace, but just as we have stress in our lives everyday we should strive to have peace everyday as well!

You can find a number of books, posts, and ideas on stress and peace. Generally as separate topics, although related.

Stress is part of everyday life. If we can't control it, it will control us.
What is @peace to you? #stress #life #peace #innerstrength

— Via Bella (@Via__Bella) January 30, 2016

Peace to me, which is going to be my new challenge, after reading this book, means I will separate myself if I feel stressed (as much as I can). I want my kids to see me in peace and in an always loving manner- not stressed out about getting somewhere on time, or getting mad because they did not listen to me the first three hundred times I asked them to do something. I want them to be at peace with love life and who they are.

My being at peace is loving me for all who I am not mattering what I have or what I have done. I want to love me for the virtue that I am worth it. I want to love those even if they don't love me, because hatred is like, so yesterday! LOL

At any rate, why am I writing about Stress and Peace? I get to review a book called... you guessed it... Stress and Peace!

At first glance of the book "Stress and Peace" by Stanley V Johnson, MBA, I was very disappointed. What I found was biblical principles on why those of faith have less stress. Or that those with less faith or less practiced faith experience more stress. I am spiritual but not religious. But keep reading all the way to the bottom!

This is a very educated guy writing this-- I did like that he threw in references from a lot of different religions. There is research based facts he uses within his arguments.

"We do not travel alone in our journeys. He created us in this world to experience joy and in order to strengthen us. If we make right choices in our lives with Him at our sides, these choices will lead to peace. When we make our own poor choices and do not include Him in our decision-making, we might experience unhappiness and stress" Page 11 of the E book.

I don't like that faith and stress relief are equated to have an inverse relationship. In other words, if you have faith, you don't have stress, and if you have stress, then you don't have faith. The title of the book really should have been called Faith and Stress, not Stress and Peace. Because I am reviewing this book, I will press on. But I really REALLY detest that statement above. I don't believe that if we have all sole faith in him that everything will just lead us to peace. It takes away from the empowering part of being human, being spiritual, and being a person of faith (or a follower for some, even different religions).

I do love however, ONE biblical quote from him which is 1 Corinthians 1:13 which is:

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonour others, it is not self seeking, it is not easily angered and it keeps no records of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres, and never fails."

At first, this book feels like a purpose of blaming those with stress on not having faith. That could be purely my experience with people who think that everyone that has stress, depression, issues, or anything else does not have faith in God.

However, it definitely rectifies itself by continuing in the book with great quotes and great advise. It goes into even divorce, finances, mortgage, credit cards, etc. I think some of the things are pertinent to even me right in the moment with having just put in an offer for a house. It has been, okay yes, stressful I have to admit. But there is practical advise I can dig in here.

Some parts I really do like:

"We must not be slaves to our own bad habits, such as money sex hate jealously etc. This kind of human behavuor will give us stress and unhappiness." Page 12

"Stress should be a powerful driving force, not an obstacle" Page 13

" We can obtain peace only by our own acceptance that we do not have complete control of our lives." page 17

On page 21, I love how he talks about fame and that fact that those that can have anything they want and have multitude of talents have high rates of suicide, drugs, alcohol etc therefore we can say with great accuracy that they do not have the peace that is within.

He goes through in one of the chapters talking about kinds of stress and why they can be harmful.

One quote caught my attention and peeved me a little.
"Stress is nothing more than a socially acceptable form of mental illness- Richard Carlson"
Dude, then we are all mentally ill including you-- I mean, come on, really?!

But as I get more into the book, I am finding some of the information actually revealing to me. Stress and real life. Real life examples of how damaging stress can be! More than we know.

We don't think of stress of having damaging effects but it really does and now I am seeing that more than ever! In fact, as a mother, a leader, an entreneuer, I feel SO guilty myself about being stressed. Like someone tied a rock in my mouth with chains and dropped it in my stomach. Who imagined?

I know for example, every parent either has yelled at their kid(s) or given them the silent treatment- one of which I am definitely guilty of. That is that rock in my stomach. Makes me want to race up and give my kids so much love in one hug that they will burst-- okay, not burst, but just so that way they know how much I love them.

I actually really like the second part of the book. VERY practical and useful advise-- you know, to help reduce your stress.

It is written, generally speaking very well, but I do suggest they take the first part out and make it the last; it is extremely off putting to those of us who have faith but don't flaunt it. It just feels too pushy.

"We must settle all arguments and differences before we go to sleep every night". 



Disclaimer: I was given the Ebook to review in exchange for my honest opinion. The opinion is my own.

Dear House... I Have Commitment Issues...

Ahhh! It's the moment that we have all been waiting for... You know, since I promised myself we were going to buy a house. I wrote I think it was in late December 2015 that I was SO mad at myself for paying so much for rent and paying off someone else's house. Especially having a very crappy landlord!

That being said... guess what we did.... 

We put in our first offer on a house, like for real, this time.

What makes me go "ahhhhh!"?

Oh you dirty minded person you! Not that. No.

I think I paced for 6-8 hours straight BEFORE making an offer.
I panicked, I yelped, I cried. No joke.
My stress I was having was normal on steroids. Ha. That means that it was normal for the stress and even some of the panic, but mine... geez, it was like, crazy panic LOL.

I felt like....

I couldn't commit to the house! 

Yes, I have commitment issues apparently... 
not to people.... but to houses?! 

Okay, I know, right, this does not make sense AT ALL?
How is it possible I can make marriage commitments, commitments to have kids, commitments to scouting and to friends and family so much but a house would be the thing that makes my tail spin?

We also made it part of our In With The New: 16 New Years Resolutions  to buy a new house. There are many reasons as you can read but it really is about taking back personal power and building equity for myself and my kids.

Well, I am writing this because it dawned on me...

(About to get very personal here...)

I never had a home growing up. And not just house, but a home. Yes, I was a foster kid. I was taken when I was three or four years old. This was for all the right reasons, not petty reasons (and some are taken away for petty reasons, no offense, but I can't speak to each story obviously but have seen it firsthand). For the right reasons though, that I am thankful. But I bounced through so many homes and dealt with so much s*&t about people not wanting me that it left a scar in the "home" part of my heart. Supremely tragic I know. #truth

That kind of past will catch up to you when you least expect it to and for the weirdest or realist reason you can think of. Mine was louder than the London Tower clock + all the metro trains going by full speed at the same time!

The last thing I wanted to do was screw up as a parent to not be able to give my kids what they absolutely deserved. Sounds like a first world problem and I know that. I am one of those that really wanted to give my kids what I did not have. They are living in one of the best cities in the world for opportunity and that should be enough right? No. They all currently share a bedroom and frankly, my daughter needs her own room, badly. We will still be tight on space though. Not much more than what we have now.

Urban living is great and I love it but it comes at a cost. There is a park nearby but it means we don't have much of a back yard. We are in between, if we get this house, two busy streets, some things more walkable, one good school, one not so good, two recreation centers within a mile, grocery store... For all that, I am excited.

We sat down with our real estate agent and it was not just signing papers. I wanted to know everything in the contract I was signing... so thank God Jamie Willis of Compass Realty in DC had a law school degree and could explain it to me, lol. She was and is great. I am super stoked to have picked her.

Now, that I have put in the offer, what I think I need to realise or have realised already:

1) It is good enough
2) We get to make it our own (aka, fixer upper)
3) What I do will be great for my kids because I have high hopes
4) With this house, it is not only equity, investment, but also frees up money to be able to do more that we would have otherwise spent on rent.
5) Putting in an offer is not "marrying" the home right away if we got the house and got "married" to it, we have many opportunities in the future to make it a home and sell it later if we need to
6) It is close to everything so walking won't be such a pain in the butt during extreme weather
7) I won't get in over my head and if I do, I have my father who can help me via video chat
8) Moving is always hard but no time like the present
9) If it is meant to be, it will be.
10) Gives me the ability to dream big on every inch of the house and making improvements.

I have literally dreamt about what I am going to do with the space under the stairs, how I am going to break a counter and switch out for more open space, what I am going to do with the kids' rooms, how I am going to build a basement apartment on my own.

So, I have gone a little nuts having fun thinking about possibilities of what I will do next for this house should we get it! I was nervous but now, I am excited!

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You can CLEARLY see most my recent pins are for housing stuff-- I am excited! Feel free to follow me and see how this possible new house turns out for us!

I can't wait to share our journey with you!!

Why is this post important?

Great question...

Buying a house in an emotional facing of what is past, letting go, and investing in your future! #buyingahouse #nowisthefuture @REALTORS

— Via Bella (@Via__Bella) January 29, 2016

10+ Things Your Cookie Mom Wish You Knew...

Leaders and Cookie Mums:
Sometimes, we as leaders can take on the role of cookie mum, or maybe you are that parent who stepped up (we as leaders thank you!) and you either know this by having experienced it or you are about to! Feel free to share with your parents so they understand not only is "there a post for that" but that other leaders as seen in number 10, have the same exact experiences as you! Yes, I know, it is hard to believe in our cookie bubble world sometimes. You are in good company!

Parents:
Read this and know that those experiences of your cookie leader or cookie mum is the same across the nation. When we say they work hard for your girls, we do. We do it without pay and with the love from our hearts! We are very proud of your girls! And we can't do it without you! So help out with booths, offering to pick up cookies, everything is helpful!

1. Read This! 
Okay, anyone who is a leader or a cookie mum will get the whole joke behind #1. If you don't, let me explain. People don't read their emails, sign up for things on time, ask questions that have been answered over and over (or in the blog post). It gets old fast. We don't mind helping but do read this to understand why sometimes we hold frustration. Although, most of the time is it worth it.


2. We Have to Set Alarms to Get Cookie Booths
Because it is like winning the lottery to get the first choice on what you want for prime cookie booths for your daughters.

3. We Re-Arrange Our Houses to Fit All Those Cookies In
And my how much work that takes when you live in an urban area! I am going to have fun fitting 4000 boxes of cookies in the house just on the initial order only! Oh, yes, we actually move furniture in the house to fit your cookies in-- so when we ask for you to pick up on time, please do! As much as we love been the fun house of girl scout cookies, it is a pain in the butt to house them sometimes.

4. C is For Cookies and for Crying Because of Cookies
There are points, especially last year, I almost quit because of an experience I had with a couple of parents and how much grief they put me through. I am the middle man, well, woman, and I think that people think I make up the rules, but I don't. I convey the information, and one reason I did posts to cover "All About Cookie Season" was so I did not have to endure same questions over and over again or parents who will try to pull the same stunts as last year. I think though, honestly, I have a great set of parents from what I can tell this year and I am excited!

5. We Account (and Re-Count) For All Cookie Transactions
This includes booths. I keep everyone accountable to what they do because I don't want their daughters' to suffer or the troop. Also, this is tedious sometimes but absolutely necessary for making sure we are on top of our stuff!

6.  We Volunteer- If We Got Paid, We Could Be Rich!
The amount of hours leaders put into being leaders and that is on top of being cookie mum for some of us is massive. We love your girls, we love this troop! So please keep in mind, we stay up very late and we wake up early to make sure things run smoothly-- and we don't get paid to do it!

7. We Have Lives Outside Scouting... 
And this is obvious, but some people don't realise despite how many hours we do actually put into scouting (and I dread to count the actual hours), that we do have many things to do beyond scouting. Some of us have medical things going on, or family things, or actually do want to put our kids into swimming too.

8.  If We Ask For Help, It's because We Need It!
Again, captain obvious here, but it's true. Sometimes people think that if we ask for help we are just wanting to push off work on you. Sometimes it is our last straw to ask for help. I am a type A all the way and I sometimes prefer to just get it done on my own but if I ask for help, it is for a real reason! So please help me help you help the troop of amazing girls we have!

9. If You Would Like to Show Your Gratitude for What we Do, Please Do! 
It makes us feel more appreciated and that we are doing something right when people/parents let us know that we are doing good and that our work is appreciated. Any token of gratitude is appreciated! In fact, wine is great-- (hahaha). And I have the resource to tell me what cookie goes with it! 

10.What Other Cookie Mum/Troop Leaders Say
(these are not my opinions, but those of the amazing leaders around the nation, within different councils (meaning different rules), and with their own experiences). So keep in mind the follow that your Cookie mum goes through!:

Tiffany Lang Rosengrant What Traci said! My daughter worked all booths at least 2 hours and a few of them all 4 hours so we could have our safety numbers. One of the 4 hour booths was in 27 degree weather. She EARNED those rewards. And she was only 5.

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Traci Born During fall product, I had people sign up for booths and not only not show but also not call me. My daughter worked every single booth because we didn't have another option. She earned her 100+ in sales.

After fall product was over... I was told I sh...See More

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Margaret Spainhoward Agreed. The only booth last year that my daughter was not scheduled to work, she got roped into working because mom #2 didn't show up, and pretended like she didn't knowwhat time it was, even though she confirmed time and place with me a few days before. -.-

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Tiffany Lang Rosengrant Ugh. I mean my girl wanted to stay usually, but wanting to and having to bc smeone one else no showed are 2 different things.

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Traci Born Our council allows mother daughter booths. Of the 5 booths we did for fall product, 4 turned into mother daughter booths because no one showed. My daughter loved it... But after I was told that I should CALL the other moms. I sent out a group text... No one replied.

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Beth Mellott How much time it takes. 😐
Plus how my husband, son, and two GSs do to make it all happen.

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Manly Foster Summerfield I had a parent tell me at Christmas that Christmas wasn't too much of a break for me since I only spend 2 hours twice a month on scouts. I was like confused emoticon . .would you like to tell my husband that? She really thinks I only spend 4 hours a month? Shoot I spent 4 hours at each meeting, and hour before setting up and dealing with parent concerns and an hour after cleaning up.

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Traci Born Another thing... If you call me 20 minutes before a booth your daughter signed up for and cancel, then I have to fill that spot. Which means that yes, my daughter is getting pulled in. Because I will not call 12 moms to fill a 1 hour slot. So yes, she might get an extra booth slot but that's because someone cancels last minute and she's my go-to fill in (which she loves). If you give more notice, I can offer the slot to other girls.

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Morgan Caufield The enormous amount of time it takes and how much time I have to sacrifice for it. That it's extremely important to pick up your cookieswhen I ask...I have 14 girls picking up cookies and it's hard to try to work my schedule around 13 others. Please pay on time...it's not fair to me to deal with cookie stuff while I'm away on vacation. And my biggest thing...please sell cookies...it's not fair to the ones that bust their butts to sell cookies and you don't even sell one box in the years you have been with the troop.

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Amy Oliver The huge amnt of time scheduling booths and doing paperwork- had to do my parents training FIVE times this year because people couldnt make the meeting or make up session.... smh

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Lisa Burnham Leibrand The amount of time that gets put in. I go every Friday to pick up cookies for booths, cookie booths all weekend, deliver remainder back on Monday. Place orders that have been collecting all week long in Tuesday so I have enough to cover more booths. ...See More

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Andrea Barton Bailey Why I need a chiropractor!

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Margaret Spainhoward That my husband pays for the uhaul, not the troop. That my husband and I load cookies at pickup, unload cookies at my house, and sort all those cookies BY OURSELVES. And no, we don't get paid...

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JoAnne Guertin Callas That when you give them a deadline date, I mean it. I don't make up these dates and I can't just enter your order when it's covenant for you to get it to me. And realize that I work 3 jobs and also volunteer so the 3 days that I am given from the end of sales to when orders are due, in reality does not give me much time to enter the orders.

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Terri Iacovelli Come Delivery time my parents pick up the cookies for my troops I input 3 different troops into ebudde I'm also handle Cookie deposit for these troops 4th grade Junior 6 girls Senior troop 1 girl Brownie troop 1 girl plus I running a Thinking Day Event for the service unit

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Jennifer Yanben Please come on time for cookie pick ups. I hate being held hostage for cookie time. It may ony be 10 minutes but over the week all of those ten minutes equal a lot of idle time I am twideling my thumbs. I have to cook dinner and run erans too.

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Amy Ward Exceed the amount of cookiesset for the troop per girl. We try to encourage the girls to sell 75 boxes a piece. Some will exceed that which is great. Some will just stop at 75. Trying to encourage more if they can. The more they sell the more the troop can go and do or maybe even get more patches, assist in getting the next uniform, or what the troop needs as a whole.

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Kisten Kerns That the e-mail I sent saying, I will be in Florida from X to Y dates, but I will make myself available for cookie pick up ALL THESE extra days before I go.... Means pick up your dang cookies, because I will ACTUALLY be in FLORIDA!!! Last year, 16 texts asking to pick up either initial order, extra cookies, or swing by for a few more of this or that! I was only gone from Friday to Monday morning!!

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Carrie Straub How inconvenient it is to me and my family if they decide to drop by unannounced ALL the TIME!!! I had one parent who I swear would come to my house EVERY SINGLE NIGHT, to drop off money. Even if it was only $50 bucks. I finally had to tell her she couldn't do that, as I have other things I have to do in the evenings!

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Margaret Spainhoward I had a mom drop by Saturday while I was working (in my home) and then send me a hateful text about how she couldn't wait for me. I'm just thinking "Maybe you shouldn't have come by UNANNOUNCED!"

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Julie Nelson That for every 1 hour they put into cookie sales, us leaders and cookie moms put in 3 or 4 hours smile emoticon

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Carol Grafton If it was my parents frokm last year, understand you need to sell more that 10 boxes for a free camping trip for 16 Scouts and their guardisn, and don't get mad if we have to charge you. This year's troop is smaller so we need to work very hard to earn anything. Also, just because my scout is high seller, it's because she works hard and does more than we require!

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Christine Bourette How much I actually put onto it. How physically exhausted o am all the time! What goes into making sure all girls get a fair chance to go to cookie booths.

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Jennifer Reilly I am an unpaid volunteer. I am not here to please you (the parents) but to help the girls do the best they can. You will have to do work and the things we do will not always be the easiest for you but we are unpaid volunteers and do not have the time to spend catering to you. I do appreciate you and I do know how busy you are so am I. Please just pay for your cookiesthanks.

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Christina Bombe Timms That there is only one of me. I have a completely full schedule. I have a husband in a walker, 2 younger kids with special needs. The youngest is out there selling with mom. She not complaining. She thinks it is fun. In a week she sold 280 boxes the next kid sold 30. I sew the uniforms on days I am off. I did the troop over one nite. I pass them out on Monday. I have a mom show up for first time and want her uniforms and cookie forms. I am going to verify with council. It took till Friday because we had a flat selling these cookies. So we lost a week we was too sick to go outside. I text the parent at 6 am saying uniforms done. She online I see her at noon on Saturday to meet. Not a thing it is coming to meeting. I have therapies for the kids a total of 6 different sessions. Plus I am helping my mother in law. I answer calls and messages from new leaders.
When I say money is due by (this date) it is a few days till die to council.....but I will turn you in to council at midnight. If you want to do trips and have it cheaper in your pocket then sell some cookies

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Wendi Casa That I will not lose sleep or rearrange my family's life or schedule because their little princess wants her cookies NOW and can't wait until the pick up time tomorrow.
Also all the gas I use driving.

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Laury Baxter All the behind the scenes work we do, ordering, balancing, double counting, entering info into spreadsheets, etc. So if we appear unorganized, disheveled, and so forth we really aren't.

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Jennie Gordon Coon I don't get paid for this and my day job expects me to keep working

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Donna Miller McCarty The paperwork, and the time it takes to do everything! to pick up cookies, pack orders, run deposits to the bank, figure out booths deliver cookie booths.
And how many people think they they can pick up cookies when ever they want, like dinner time. Or say they will be here at 5:00 and show up at 7:00

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Kisten Kerns That giving me a 'verbal' order for 2 more Thin Mints and a box of Samoas for Uncle Joe, while I am in the middle of passing out the girls Initial Orders, will never result in boxes of cookies for Uncle Joe! Text it, e-mail me, write it down on the gosh dang Goal Getter that I JUST Handed to you, lol!!!

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Traci Born That being cookie mom isn't easy and it takes away from MY daughter and her time to be selling. That I'm not available 24/7. That just because we homeschool and I'm home doesn't mean I'm available to answer you the moment you message me for cookies (or anything).

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Tiffany Lang Rosengrant Oh and that I can look at the cases of different shapes and sizes, stare at the back of my truck and see how to get the most number of cases in there while maximizing booth sales. Because you know, I'm a cookie mom and that's my super power.

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Vicki Oliver That they consume my entire living room and possibly camper for at least a month or longer. That I need and want the help loading them up for cookie booths because I am only 1 person. And that if no one wants to help with booths, we aren't doing them because I refuse to sit there by self selling cookies. It's a troop effort

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Kisten Kerns That my daughter being Top Seller, year after year, is no secret 'trick' or magic. It is hard work, and if their daughters set the same kinds of goals, I would do my best to help them reach them!

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Angela Nielson Smith In GSU we have to have a minimum of 2 adults, one of whom HAS to be a registered adult.

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Melissa Dodd Lugging all them boxes around really puts a toll on you.

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Becky Brewer I wish I could have made them understand that you can't just 'send back' unsold cookies, and that I needed them to step up and do more to get them sold. I'm no longer a leader and I miss my troop terribly, but I do not miss cookie stress one bit.

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Andrea Wallace Cassels The many week nights staying up until 1 am planning cookie stuff and meetings!! And the numerous emailing and texting now that I have 2 girls in 2 different troops!

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Barbara Kreisler That I am responsible for getting and distributing the cookies. That I am responsible for the money. I am a volunteer and really don't enjoy running around for so little return for the troop.

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Jessica Dean Ditto on the stressing over booths. Also, I'm selling not just for my daughter to make her goal, but also the goal for all the girls in the troop. But, my parents are awesome, so I don't stress too much over it.

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Rebecca Wedl Wilson that I'm staying up until midnight and stressing over getting "good" booths for them!

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Autumn Jean Hall Kizerian and getting up early and if I switch a booth it's cause I think it will sell better. Walmart is better than Lowe's and if we can get a better booth I will. smile emoticon

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Rebecca Wedl Wilson I am constantly stalking the booths listings just in case someone else drops a good one! It's an illness! hahaha

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Tiffany Fogle I'm a cookie mum / co leader and our main leader is not a good leader I have to due pretty much all the work and then she never communicate with me .

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Nikki Williams My parents have been awesome so far but this is a new group of girls all new parents but so far my parents who couldn't meet said I can come to u They are pretty awesome ask again at the end of cookies lol

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Tara Joines I try so very hard, to get the troop to realize the skills that they can and do learn, just by selling cookies. The training, the information, the organization and work to make it a fun experience for each girl. There is a LOT of red tape, that the leaders and TCM go through, all for the cookies, behind the scenes. We love what we do and we do it for their baby girls! heart emoticon

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Monica Lightsey- Stowers Understanding the physical work involved. I suffer from fibromyalgia.... lifting and moving boxes can make for a rough couple of days. Also, the amount of gas I use picking up cookies throughout the season, and driving to and from every booth sale even when I'm not scheduled to work the booth.

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Tiffany Lang Rosengrant That they double counted the cookies they took. *i* did not give them the wrong types or short change them.

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Autumn Jean Hall Kizerian That I have to help my daughter just like them and do troop stuff. I have a family that needs me. My life is a little more complicated. In my troop I am one of 2 working mom's the rest are stay at home but, keep telling me theiy arebuisier than me.

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Shanna Brown We don't "make up rules" just for fun. We get instructions from council and we pass on the expectations. Please don't give ME grief over the way the council sets their rules. I have to follow them for my own child, just as you are expected to do. I am a volunteer, I don't work for council, I'm not their employee. We are doing the best we can and need their support by please just doing what we ask.

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Robin Pruitt i just wish they understood that i am JUST as busy, and kids get JUST as sick, and life gets in the way JUST as much for me and them, and then i ADD days worth of hours of hard work into my life to better the girls and that my life is no less of value just bc i volunteered to do this. (this can go for being a leader in general too)

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Deb Lyszczak Kraft Could not have said it better!

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Sarah Thomas Amen!

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Remember that no matter our frustration....  We Love Our Troop-- That is Why We Do It!
We love our troop and want to support girls, big dreams, and business savvy amongst them. Seeing the girls blossom makes it all the worth it!