Every power song list here will look a little different-- different genres, different ages.
I am telling you, sometimes, listening to music is what got me through.
When you are in the in between stages of deciding fully to separate and actually announcing it, it can be the loneliest time because you are not telling people but you are not sharing love with someone no more. It is so hard. Anyone who tells you differently, either hasn't experienced it, or is being blinded. No matter how free it feels to be separated it still hurts.
There are still moments that I am not sure I will find love again.
This is likely, I am sure , a common thing. However, it doesn't make it any easier on the human condition called love and desire. It is still there and ever wanting of a special kind of love. A few marriages I know are that way. I wish to have a piece of it someday.
Happiness... Wanting... Love... Passion.... Desire...
Until then, I shall listen to these songs (and play list at the end of the post with the full list of songs.
If you have a song, comment below and suggest it and I will add it to the play list!
1. Heart Attack by Demi Lovato
"Putting my defenses Up, cuz I don't want to fall in love... if I did that, I'd have a heart attack."
"Never put my love on the line, Never said yes to the right guy."
"When it comes to you, I am never good enough."
"Pains more trouble than love is worth"
"I'm flying to close to the sun and I burst into flames"
2. Girlfriend by Avril Lavigne
(This one was picked by another friend of mine...)
"She's like so whatever, You can do so much better"
"I don't like your girlfriend, I think you need a new one."
"Better yet, make your girlfriend disappear."
"She's so stupid. What the hell were you thinking?"
3. I Knew You Were Trouble by Taylor Swift
"Once upon a time, a few mistakes ago, you got me in your sights, you got me alone."
"You didn't care"
"When I feel hard, you took a step back without me"
"I knew you were trouble when you walked in"
"So you put me down"
"Now I am laying on the cold hard ground"
"He'll never see you cry, pretend he doesn't know, he's the reason why"
"A new notch on your belt is all I will ever be"
"He was long gone when he met me. And I realised the joke is on me."
"You never loved me, her or anything"
4. Ain't Your Mama by Jennifer Lopez
"I ain't cooking all day, I ain't your mama"
"I ain't doing your laundry, I ain't your mama"
"When you're going to get your act together, boy, I ain't your mama"
"Things are about to change, round here round here"
"We used to be crazy in love, can we go back to the way it was?"
"When did you get too comfortable? Cuz I am too good for that"
"Lucky to have these curves, Stop getting on my nerves"
"You're still trying to ride the train, something's gotta change"
5. Don't Speak by No Doubt
"You and me used to be together, everyday together"
"I really feel that I'm losing my best friend"
"I can't believe this could be the end"
"Don't speak, I know just what you're saying"
"So please stop explaining, Don't tell me cause it hurts."
"I know what you are thinking, I don't need your reasons"
"Our memories, they can be inviting but some altogether are mighty frightening"
"As we die, both you and I with my head in my hands I sit and cry"
"It's all ending, I gotta stop pretending"
6. Best Thing I Never Had by Beyonce
" What goes around comes back around, baby"
"There was a time I thought you did everything right"
"no lies, no wrongs, boy I must of been out of my mind"
"So I when I think of the time I almost loved you"
"You showed your ass and I saw the real you"
"Thank God you blew it, Thank God I dodged a bullet"
"I'm so over you so good looking out!"
" I wanted you bad, I am so through with that"
"You turned out to be, the best thing I never had"
"I bet it sucks to be you right now"
"You don't deserve my tears, I guess that's why there not there"
"Thank God I found the good in goodbye"
7. Take a Bow by Rihanna
"How about a round of applause"
"You look so dumb right now, standing out side my house"
"Trying to apologise, you're so ugly when you cry, please just cut it out"
"Don't tell your sorry cause your not"
"You're only sorry you got caught"
"You put on quite a show, really had my going, but it's over now"
"It's over now, go on and take a bow"
"Talking about 'girl I love you, you're the one'. This just looks like a re-run. Please, what else is on"
"The award for the best liar goes to you for making me believe that you could be faithful"
8. Try by Pink
"How it all turned to lies"
"Sometimes I think it's best to never ask why"
"Where there is desire, there's going to be flame"
"Were there is a flame, someone's bound to get burned"
"Just because it burns doesn't mean you're gonna die"
"You gotta get up and try and try and try"
"Funny how the heart can be deceiving"
"Why do we fall in love so easy, even when it's not right"
"Are you just getting by?"
9. Send My Love (to Your New Lover) by Adele
"This was you, none of it me"
"You put your hands on my body and told me, you were ready"
"For the big one, the big jump, I'd be your last love everlasting"
"You and me, that's what you told me"
"I'm giving you up, I forgiven it all, You set me free"
"Send my love to your new lover"
"Treat her better"
"We all gotta let go of all of our ghosts"
"I was too strong, you were trembling"
"You couldn't handle the hot heat rising"
"I'm still rising"
"I was running, you were walking, couldn't keep up"
"You set me free"
10. Kill Em With Kindness by Selena Gomez
(let's end on a good note, shall we?)
"The world can be a nasty place"
"We don't have to fall from grace"
"Put down the weapons you fight with and kill em with kindness"
"We're running out of time, chasing the lies"
"Everyday a small piece of you dies"
"Always someone you are willing to fight to be right"
"Your lies are bullets"
"Your mouth's a gun"
"No war in anger was ever won"
"Put out the fire before igniting"
"Kill em with kindness"
SOS Playlist Rounds
(every round = something new)
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